Ask Aunt Em and Uncle Arnie: A pair of jeans, a pair of tires

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It’s time again for us to share some of the letters we’ve received from people with needs whom we’ve chosen to help.

We got lots of letters this month. It’s really hard for us to pick anyone because everyone seems worthy. In this holiday season, we wish we could do more. But we’re proud and happy to do what we’re doing.

Remember, we’re looking to give small amounts that will make a difference. We read every letter, but those that requested amounts greater than $500 we really couldn’t consider. We’re not gazillionaires. We’re people who have done fairly well and want to give back.

Remember also that we probably want to stay away from scholarships or medical needs. Those can get complicated and expensive.

Finally, we want to thank the Duluth News Tribune for allowing us to do this. Through the newspaper we’ve been able to get word out in the community and identify people we can help.

For us, that’s been the best Christmas present of all.

Dear Em & Arnie,

I am 70 years old, single and living on Social Security. I could use a couple pairs of jeans. I do not buy pre-torn jeans; I wear them out myself. Am I worthy of a little assistance?

L.S.

Dear L.S.,

Arnie can relate to your situation, and Em thinks you are more than worthy. Check your mail for a $100 check to buy two pairs of new jeans and some gas to get you to the store.

Dear Em & Arnie,

My co-worker is a single mother of two sons. She is in need of two new tires to get to work at a local nursing home. If there were a way to bless her with your generosity, she would be eternally appreciative.

S.P.

Dear S.P.,

Your friend falls in four of our favorite categories: Mother, working, helping elderly and appreciative. A check of $150 is on its way. Thank you for your generosity in writing on your co-worker’s behalf.

Dear Em & Arnie,

I love being a mother; it’s the best thing ever to happen to me. My two fabulous children are my world. So the one thing I would ask for is a trip to the grocery store without having to tell them no to a small treat. Thank you so much for even considering my letter.

R.H.

Dear R. H.,

There are so many writers, but your letter struck us both as genuine and sincere. A mom who loves her children and who keeps them fed and safe is priceless. We wish we could help all mothers who are struggling this holiday season. But for now, we hope that sending you a $150 check will help your family and provide a small treat for all of you.

Dear Em & Arnie,

I got permanently sick 9 years ago and can no longer work. Money is hard to come by. My divorced parents have come together to support me at doctor appointments and treatments. I would love to get each of them a gift for Christmas. I am 35, and they have deserved this for years.

C.B.

Dear C.B.,

Your parents have a beautiful woman for a daughter. We can relate to how frustrating and tough it is to be unable to give to those who give so much to us. We hope that you are able to use the $100 check we sent you to say thank you to them in a way that makes you happy. Our best wishes to you.

Do you have a need or know someone who does? Aunt Em and Uncle Arnie want to help. Write them at Ask Aunt Em & Uncle Arnie, c/o Duluth News Tribune, 424 W. First St., Duluth, Minn. 55802.

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